Buying jewelry is (Surprise!) like buying anything else. You should become knowledgeable enough to make an informed purchase, and deal only with those whose reputation you trust. I wouldn't knowingly promote or advertise for any jeweler I had reason to distrust, but in truth, I've only purchased from Barsky's, BJ's Wholesale Club, and Target.
While the image of each of these stores is very different, I was perfectly happy with each purchase. (Platinum engagement and wedding rings at Barsky's, diamond earrings at BJ's, and a very nice silver heart necklace at Target--for about $16.
For some general advice on buying jewelry, check out this guide from the FTC.
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